Anxiety - 5 Lesser Known Ways It Might be Affecting You
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Anxiety - 5 Lesser Known Ways It Might be Affecting You

Anxiousness is part of the normal and healthy range of human emotion, and having a fear response is designed to keep us safe. It becomes a problem when it starts to affect your daily life, such as your health, relationships, work, or school.

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The Lowdown on Loneliness: Who it impacts, how to cope, and ways to build connections.
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The Lowdown on Loneliness: Who it impacts, how to cope, and ways to build connections.

You may find that you feel lonely even when in a group of people, around family or friends, or in a familiar social environment. This may mean that – for one reason or another – you don’t feel as connected to those you are around as you would like to, you don’t feel a true sense of belonging in a certain social environment, or you may feel misunderstood by the people you are with.

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Teamwork in Mental Health: The Key to Better Care
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Teamwork in Mental Health: The Key to Better Care

Collaborative care is more than sharing views; it’s about improving the treatment process by including several different diverse insights and expertise. It’s a team and collective effort where, for example, a therapist’s understanding can broaden a psychiatrist’s view and vice versa.

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Adults, Social Media, and Mental Health
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Adults, Social Media, and Mental Health

While social media is not all good or all bad, fostering genuine connection and knowing the potentially adverse effects of using it can help to limit the damage that it can do.

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This is Your Brain (Walking) on Sunlight
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This is Your Brain (Walking) on Sunlight

To benefit from sunlight, the World Health Organization recommends getting brief, direct sun exposure for 5-15 minutes a couple times per week. This will help you receive a vitamin D boost and regulate serotonin levels.

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Misophonia: When Sounds Are Too Much
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Misophonia: When Sounds Are Too Much

Chances are, a lot of people that you know are struggling with Misophonia. Once you start talking about it, you may notice more people coming forward to say they struggle with it as well. While asking someone to tolerate a minor annoyance is reasonable, this is more than that. Have patience with yourself, and talk about it!

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The Power of Grit
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The Power of Grit

Grit is your stick-to-itness. It is your ability to persist when things get tough because that thing matters to you. It’s about finding something you are passionate about and staying with it no matter what.

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Food and Mood: The Connection Between Your Diet and Emotional Well-being
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Food and Mood: The Connection Between Your Diet and Emotional Well-being

The link between food and mood is closely related. One way in which food influences your mood is through its impact on neurotransmitters in the brain. Neurotransmitters are chemicals responsible for regulating mood, sleep, and various essential bodily functions. Imbalances in neurotransmitter levels can result in a spectrum of mental health conditions, including depression and anxiety.

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We Talked About Freeze… Now Let’s Talk About Fawn
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We Talked About Freeze… Now Let’s Talk About Fawn

The fawn response can be summed up, for the most part, with people pleasing. When fight, flight and freeze responses won’t keep us safe, we try to keep the threat happy or make ourselves likeable. We often learn this response in relationships as children, trying to keep an adult or peers satisfied with us so they won’t belittle us, hurt us or brush off our feelings.

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Is Therapy Right For You?
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Is Therapy Right For You?

Anyone can benefit from therapy if they want to work on themselves. Therapy allows for a safe space to talk about feelings and experiences, and learn new ways to cope with stressful things in life. Recently, going to therapy seems to be something everyone is doing. In spite of this, there is still a stigma associated with getting any kind of treatment for mental health. So how do you know if therapy is the right move for you?

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Embrace the Healing Power of Laughter
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Embrace the Healing Power of Laughter

Laughter is not only a pleasant experience; it is also a good way to improve your emotional well-being. Let’s start your journey to discover how laughter can be a new way for you to improve your mental health and identify easy ways to incorporate more laughter into your life.

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School Refusal
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School Refusal

School refusal is different from truancy. Children who are truant refuse to go to school because they want to do something else. They will often concoct elaborate schemes to avoid going to school. However, school refusal is related to anxiety about situations or expectations at school.

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The Impact of Childhood Trauma on Adulthood
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The Impact of Childhood Trauma on Adulthood

Trauma is an emotional reaction to a significant event that can happen once with intensity, a series of significant events that may have varied intensity and be ongoing, or a combination of both. Trauma affects our interconnected systems physically, emotionally, socially, and intellectually.

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First Responders Need Support Too
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First Responders Need Support Too

We often look at physical health and mental health as different, but they are not. If you break your arm, you go to the doctor and eventually heal. If you suffer from PTSD, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, you may suffer in silence, have feelings of shame or guilt, and not seek help due to fear and/or the stigma.

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Emotional Regulation: Where Did That Meltdown Come From?
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Emotional Regulation: Where Did That Meltdown Come From?

The better regulated your child is, the more easily they can move from disappointed to happy, from play to school and even from contentment to disappointment. Healthy emotion regulation means being able to shift across the whole range of feelings without feeling too much or too little. A big piece of learning healthy emotion regulation is recognizing what “regulated” really looks like.

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Laziness is a MYTH
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Laziness is a MYTH

For the most part, saying someone is being “lazy” is assigning a character judgment to them. This person has two options: either they continue saying that they’re just “lazy” because that has been determined as a part of who they are as a person, or they continue being labeled as “lazy” but they feel bad about it. This is a difficult pattern to break. By calling ourselves “lazy,” we are assigning the appropriate punishment for this terrible characteristic. By calling others “lazy,” we get the satisfaction of placing blame on them.

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Where Did You Get That Idea?
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Where Did You Get That Idea?

We often repeat those phrases so frequently that we forget where we first heard them, but we probably have examples of situations in our lives that “prove” the idea. These phrases are often harmless and the reason they are well-known is probably because they do hold true in many cases. The problem is that when we have held onto an idea like these for so long, we sometimes forget to question whether or not it remains true for us any longer or whether or not it applies to our current situation.

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Theraplay: Tools for the Connection Dance
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Theraplay: Tools for the Connection Dance

Theraplay therapists create a space where your child can learn that you are a safe, trustworthy parent, and in this space, you can discover the ways your child is able to receive your love and direction in that moment. In Theraplay, this happens by having fun! Research has shown us that adults and children learn best through games, where everyone is having fun.

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Tips to Manage a Mental Health Crisis
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Tips to Manage a Mental Health Crisis

If you are feeling as though you are in crisis, either you are concerned that you are having thoughts of harming or killing yourself, or are feeling out of control emotionally, the most important thing you can do is to tell someone. This can be done over the phone or in person. If you don’t have a support person you can contact, call a crisis line. Having a therapist can help to develop long term ways of coping so that crises happen less frequently.

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Emotional Co-Regulation
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Emotional Co-Regulation

The really amazing thing about mirror neurons is that you can use your mirror neurons to help your child when they are struggling to regulate their own emotions. If you stay calm in situations which are causing your child distress (ie frustration, anxiety, fear, anger, etc) and maintain a supportive presence, your child will essentially “catch” your calm.

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